Hands are not for hitting

reassuring · practical · gentle · educational

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What is Hands are not for hitting about?

Hands can do many helpful things: wave hello, build, draw, play, comfort someone and make music. But when big feelings such as anger or frustration take over, hands must not be used for hitting. This reassuring book helps young children understand why hitting hurts and explores safer choices, including using words, asking for help, taking a breath and finding a peaceful solution. Simple examples and activities support conversations about kindness, self-control, respect and caring for others.

About the author

Martine Agassi is a children’s author and therapist who writes friendly books to help young readers make positive choices and understand their feelings. Her best-known book, Hands Are Not for Hitting, shows that hands can be used for helping, playing, learning and caring. Martine’s work encourages children to be kind, thoughtful and respectful. Through simple words and cheerful ideas, she helps families and teachers start important conversations and gives children confidence to grow.